In today’s world of social media, it’s easy to come across individuals who call themselves guides, healers, or coaches. But not all who claim these titles are genuine. Unfortunately, some “spiritual swindlers” prioritize financial gain over authentic healing. Their promises often leave people financially drained and emotionally wounded.
True spiritual healers aim to empower and guide others toward self-discovery and transformation. But the growing presence of unqualified practitioners has left many seeking solace from life’s hardships feeling more lost than ever. For those on a healing journey, these encounters can be disheartening.
Recognizing the Red Flags
Spiritual swindlers often charge exorbitant fees for workshops, seminars, retreats, and “exclusive” spiritual counseling sessions. While there is nothing wrong with fair compensation for transformational work, it becomes unethical when results are nonexistent. Stories of people spending upwards of $15,000 on ineffective treatments are not uncommon. Such experiences tarnish the reputation of authentic healers and discourage people from seeking the help they need.
The truth is, trusting someone with your mental, emotional, and spiritual well-being requires vulnerability. When you’re in a fragile state, it’s easy to put your trust in someone who may not have your best interests at heart. This is why I felt called to write this post — to raise awareness and protect those seeking healing from potential exploitation.
Finding the right healer, coach, psychic, or channeler is no easy task. Many people are unknowingly drawn to charismatic personalities rather than authentic, skilled practitioners. As someone who has been on both sides of this journey, I understand the importance of finding someone aligned with your values, someone who genuinely supports your growth.
My Story: The Early Years
My journey into the world of spiritual healing wasn’t something I actively sought out. From a young age, I was told I had a “gift” and was born with a veil — a term often used in spiritual circles to describe individuals with heightened intuitive abilities. But as a child, this “gift” felt more like a burden. Seeing shadows and spirits frightened me, and I wanted nothing to do with it.
At 17, I got married and, to my relief, my spiritual visions faded. I thought I had “escaped” this part of me. But life had a way of bringing me back to it.
A Journey of Self-Discovery
Growing up in an environment shaped by childhood trauma left lasting effects on me. Anxiety became a constant companion, and though I didn’t have the words for it then, I was already engaging in “mirror work” — a self-reflective practice that is now widely recognized as a powerful healing tool.
I would look at myself in the mirror and affirm, “You will always succeed at whatever you set your mind to. You will have everything you didn’t have as a child, and I will always love you.” This daily ritual, though unintentional at the time, became a foundational part of my healing process.
Like many who grow up in difficult environments, I sought a way out. At 18, I got married, thinking it would lead to my “happily ever after.” My first son was born soon after, and his presence motivated me to pursue education and a corporate career. By 22, I had purchased my first home and had a growing family. On the surface, it looked like I was thriving.
But behind closed doors, I began to see that my “fairy tale” was not the happily ever after I had imagined. My marriage became a space where I felt unseen, and I knew I had to make a change for my well-being and that of my children.
The Turning Point
Ending my marriage was one of the most challenging decisions of my life. With two young children depending on me, I faced an overwhelming sense of fear and uncertainty. I found support in a women’s group, many of whom were in their 40s and 50s, offering me the wisdom, strength, and encouragement I needed. Their guidance was life-changing.
At 25, I began therapy — an experience that helped me understand my emotional needs and recognize that I was capable of creating a new path for myself. While my corporate job provided financial stability, I realized I was still unfulfilled. Life challenged me further when, after nine years with the same company, I found myself unexpectedly unemployed. With two children and no job, I felt I had hit rock bottom.
Discovering My Purpose
When you’re at your lowest, you often seek something more profound. For me, that “something” was energy healing. My cousin Ale introduced me to the concept, and from the moment I experienced it, I knew it was the missing piece of my life’s puzzle. I realized that my earlier “gift” — the ability to see beyond the physical realm — had never really left me. It had simply been waiting for the right moment to reawaken.
I immersed myself in learning. My first channeling class reignited that intuitive part of me that I had pushed away for so long. This time, I embraced it fully. I had incredible mentors who guided me, and as I strengthened my abilities, I understood that this was more than just a gift — it was a calling.
A Life of Service
Unlike the spiritual swindlers who overcharge for “miracle solutions,” I believe that spiritual work should be rooted in service. True healing is not about material wealth but about helping people rise together. It’s about sharing the tools and guidance that allow people to become their own healers.
My own experience with anxiety and depression taught me this firsthand. I learned to befriend these emotions rather than fight them, recognizing that every challenge holds a lesson. Instead of seeing anxiety as an enemy, I saw it as a teacher. This shift in perspective allowed me to heal not just myself but to hold space for others as they do the same.
My Mission
Today, I work with individuals on their own healing journeys. My approach is centered on empowerment, not dependence. I don’t promise “miracle cures” or instant transformations. Instead, I provide the tools, guidance, and support needed to help people connect with their inner power.
I don’t consider myself a psychic in the traditional sense. I believe we all have the power to shift our vibration and align ourselves with positive energy. My role is to help people tap into that power within themselves. True healing is a co-creative process.
How to Identify an Authentic Healer
Unfortunately, the spiritual world is not free from deception. It’s essential to approach your healing journey with discernment. While intuition is a valuable tool, there are also practical steps you can take to ensure you’re working with a trustworthy healer:
1. Research Credentials and Experience – Look into their training, certifications, and reviews from past clients. Authentic healers continue to learn and grow, not just “claim” abilities.
2. Look for Transparency – Real healers are open about their processes, pricing, and what you can expect. If something feels vague or secretive, proceed with caution.
3. Trust Your Intuition – If something feels off, it probably is. Your intuition is one of your most powerful guides.
4. Check for Testimonials and Word of Mouth – Honest reviews from real clients can reveal more than a flashy social media presence.
5. Avoid Over-Promising – Healing is a journey, not a “one-and-done” experience. Anyone promising overnight results is likely misleading you.
Closing Thoughts
My story isn’t one of perfection but of persistence. It’s a testament to the power of resilience and the importance of trusting the journey. Along the way, I’ve learned that healing requires courage. We all possess that courage, even if we have to dig a little deeper to find it.
If you are seeking healing, I encourage you to be intentional about your search. The right healer will guide you to activate your own inner gifts, not make you dependent on them. Spirituality is about oneness, connection, and a shared sense of purpose — not profit.
If you’re ready to begin your healing journey, do so with an open heart, a discerning mind, and the courage to follow your intuition. True healing is available to you, and you are more powerful than you realize.
“Healing takes courage, and we all have courage within us; sometimes, we just have to dig a little deeper to find it.”
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